![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Some things aren’t that important, and disagreement is of minimal importance. A different, new, reformed way can evolve. What good is getting our way if that way is destructive to our partner? We will end up suffering anyway from the painful demise of our relationship. When times are uncomfortable, challenging, not what we wanted or imagined, or actively distressing, we should not revert to dishonesty, nondisclosure, or manipulation to get our own way. We do not have to sacrifice our destiny, talents, friendships, or ambitions, but their impact on the other person has to be seriously considered. “No relationship survives or, more accurately, survives happily without a joint commitment to the genuine happiness of the other person. In that transfusion of blood which drains the good to feed the evil, the compromise is the transmitting rubber tube.” In any compromise between good and evil, it is only evil that can profit. In any compromise between food and poison, it is only death that can win. But the man in the middle is the knave who blanks out the truth in order to pretend that no choice or values exist, who is willing to sit out the course of any battle, willing to cash in on the blood of the innocent or to crawl on his belly to the guilty, who dispenses justice by condemning both the robber and the robbed to jail, who solves conflicts by ordering the thinker and the fool to meet each other halfway. The man who is wrong still retains some respect for truth, if only by accepting the responsibility of choice. There are two sides to every issue: one side is right and the other is wrong, but the middle is always evil. Whether you eat your bread or see it vanish into a looter's stomach, is an absolute. Whether you have a piece of bread or not, is an absolute. ![]() Reality is an absolute, existence is an absolute, a speck of dust is an absolute and so is a human life. “The man who refuses to judge, who neither agrees nor disagrees, who declares that there are no absolutes and believes that he escapes responsibility, is the man responsible for all the blood that is now spilled in the world. ![]()
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